{"id":17127,"date":"2022-07-05T14:00:42","date_gmt":"2022-07-05T14:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.paradiseweddings.com\/blog\/?p=17127"},"modified":"2026-04-03T10:42:58","modified_gmt":"2026-04-03T14:42:58","slug":"destination-wedding-guest-guide","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paradiseweddings.com\/blog\/destination-wedding-guest-guide\/","title":{"rendered":"The Better Guest Guide to Destination Weddings"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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So, you’re attending a destination wedding<\/a> soon!<\/p>

Have no idea what to wear? \ud83d\ude31<\/p>

Curious about the cost for you as a guest?<\/p>

Don’t worry, cause this ultimate guide will cover everything you need to know!<\/p>

From what to expect<\/strong>\u00a0to what to wear + Do’s, and Dont’s.<\/p>

No surprises! We’ll maybe a few. You ready?<\/p>

Let’s get started…<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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\n\t\t\t\t\tDestination Weddings for Guests\t\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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  1. What to Wear to a Destination Wedding<\/a><\/li>
  2. Destination Wedding Guest Costs<\/a><\/li>
  3. What to Expect — Do’s & Don’ts<\/a><\/li>
  4. What to Pack<\/a><\/li><\/ol>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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    \n\t\t\t\t\t1. What to Wear to a Destination Wedding\t\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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    When it comes to destination weddings<\/a>, one of the most common questions is what to wear…<\/p>

    Of course, you’ll want to dress<\/strong> according to the location<\/strong> & time of year.<\/p>

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    What should a guest wear to an island wedding?<\/h5>

    If it’s a summer wedding on an island, you’ll want to avoid dark colors<\/strong> that will absorb heat.<\/p>

    Instead, opt for light & airy fabrics<\/strong> in brighter colors!<\/p>

    What do guests wear to a beach wedding?<\/h5>

    Beach weddings are a bit more casual, so you can definitely get away with wearing something less formal.<\/strong><\/p>

    However, it’s still important to avoid anything too revealing<\/strong> or casual, like shorts and flip-flops.<\/p>

    A sundress or even a nice pair of slacks & a button-down shirt would be appropriate.<\/p>

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    Related: 10 Tips For Wedding Hair in Humid Weather<\/a><\/p>

    What should wedding guests not wear?<\/h5>

    As for what not to wear, a good rule of thumb is to avoid anything that you’d wear to a club or bar.<\/p>

    In other words, keep it classy!<\/strong><\/p>

    \u2028What is the best color to wear as a guest at a wedding?<\/h5>

    When it comes to color, there are really no hard & fast rules.<\/p>

    However, it’s generally best to avoid white,<\/strong> since that’s usually reserved for the bride.<\/p>

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    Black<\/strong> is also a good choice, as it is elegant & flattering.<\/p>

    If you want to stand out, go for a brighter color like red or yellow.<\/strong><\/p>

    Just make sure you avoid anything too loud<\/strong> or obnoxious.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    \n\t\t\t\t\t2. Costs for Destination Wedding Guests\t\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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    What are guests expected to pay at a destination wedding?<\/h5>\n

    Typically guests are expected to cover their own travel & lodging expenses but this can vary depending on the couple.<\/p>\n

    According to statistics<\/a>, guests spend, on average, $1,400 on accommodation<\/strong> to attend an all-inclusive resort wedding.<\/p>\n

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    However, the bride & groom may also cover some or all of these costs.<\/p>\n

    If they could don’t mention that they’re coving the costs it’s safe to assume that you will be.<\/p>\n

    Costs depend on the duration of your stay.<\/p>\n

    How long do guests stay at a destination wedding?<\/h5>\n

    Usually, guests will stay for at least 3 nights<\/strong>, 4 days.<\/p>\n

    Why? Most wedding packages default to a 3-day minimum. Explore the most popular destination wedding packages<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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    This gives you just enough time<\/strong> to enjoy the wedding festivities & explore the area!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    Now that we’ve covered what to wear & how much it will cost you, let’s talk about some etiquette tips.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    When it comes to destination wedding etiquette, there are a few things to keep in mind…<\/strong><\/p>\n

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    1. RSVP as soon as possible<\/h5>\n

    The bride & groom will need to make travel arrangements and book hotel rooms, so they’ll need to know how many guests are coming.<\/p>\n

    2. Be sure to send a gift even if you can’t attend the wedding<\/h5>\n

    The couple will still appreciate your thoughtfulness!<\/p>\n

    Check out this list of wedding gift ideas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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    3. Be respectful of the culture & customs of the destination<\/h5>\n

    This means doing your research<\/strong> beforehand & being mindful of your actions while you’re there.<\/p>\n

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    Now that we’ve covered the do’s, let’s talk about the don’ts…<\/strong><\/p>\n

    1. Don’t be late!<\/h5>\n

    Remember that the bride & groom have probably spent months planning<\/strong> this event, so try to be on time for everything.<\/p>\n

    2. Don’t over-drink<\/h5>\n

    It’s easy to get caught up in the party atmosphere, but remember that you’re not on vacation.<\/p>\n

    You should still be respectful of the other guests<\/strong> and the bride & groom.<\/p>\n

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    3. Don’t forget to pack your camera!<\/h5>\n

    Destination weddings are a once-in-a-lifetime<\/strong> experience, so be sure to capture plenty of memories.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    Now that we’ve gone over what to wear & some etiquette tips, let’s talk about what to pack…<\/strong><\/p>

    Of course, you’ll want to bring all the essentials<\/strong> like:<\/p>